I must confess, I’m walking on air these days, with so many new things popping into my life. And I notice how many people around me are also experiencing change in their lives.

Oh, change. Ain’t that a scary/exciting word?

The more beautiful the treasure, the more frightening the journey. That’s how life works, in general.

So here’s the thing — today, I’m gonna write to you about change, how to approach it the feminine way and what you ought to do in order to make change not only possible, but also easier and pleasurable.

And I’ll start with a question we received from Adina:

“Hi, Oana! Thank you for all your work and the stories you are sharing. I have a question — I am now tapping into my feminine energy and I am very scared, because it means giving up control and just surrender to emotions. Up until this point, I’ve identified myself with masculine traits and now it feels like am I entering a new world, which, at first glance, seems rather weak, precisely because it lacks all the dominant traits. Yet, it also seems a great source of strength — true love, I would say, lies in this area. How can I make peace with the fact that the dominant traits, which kept me alive up till this point, will go secondary? How do I get on the other side smoothly, without any regrets? Thanks a lot, Adina.”

My dearest Adina, I hear you and I acknowledge your perspective and the fear of letting go that comes along. We’ve all gone through that and it’s perfectly legit.

As said before, change is a double edged word, both scary and exciting. ☺ But now I want to offer you a different perspective. An enriching one.

Think about it — you have been living your whole life looking at the world through certain lenses. You grew really good at it and it also served you well.

But now, your soul is calling. It wants more, it wants something different. It knows there’s more to it out there.

Your soul’s calling for the feminine principle and for the feminine energy; it wants you to live your life the feminine way.

It smoothly leads you towards valuing your emotions deeper and wiser. Cause it’s through emotions that you, my darling, will start reconnecting with your past and your memories, with your present and the good people in your life, and with your future and your great expectations.

And so, you become whole.

Allowing and accepting your emotions is the key to living a grounded and mindful life.

And that’s so much different from simply letting emotions “overwhelm” you.

Your soul is urging you to let go of the idea that being in control means staying in strictly familiar circumstances and doing exclusively things you have have done before. Instead, it whispers you the promise of a sensual dance between the eternal masculine and the eternal feminine.

I invite you now to take a second and smoothly shift your focus from what you believe you are forever losing; allow your soul to lighten up what you will be receiving, how you are growing and how your senses are refining.

Meditation and contemplation are great ways for tuning in and grasping more of what’s possible for you.

Ask your soul everyday — “dear one, what do you really want? How do I recon when you are guiding me towards your desire?”

Enjoy the journey and always remember — before you change your life, you need to change your perspective.

In the meantime, you can secretly enjoy this episode of our one and only The Feminine #Uncut Podcast. You’ll get valuable hands-on guidance on how to stay in shape, attend to your needs, eliminate struggle, anxiety and burnout. Also, you will discover how to increase your general level of well-being, naturally the feminine way. ?​

Keep on sending us your wonderful stories and challenging questions, by posting a comment below. ? We’re always super thrilled to give you the best and most useful guidance. ?

In love & sisterhood,